TALES OF A BIG HEADED OWL...

friendship and love might be two things that seem interconnected and related,
but sometimes in life, they seem like two totally different things.
though some might say that the line between being just friends

and going a level higher is a fine one.
however when people arrive at ‘The Edge’,
it seems like a line with an infinite width.
it might be true that friendship happens out of love,
but does love require friendship??
sometimes friendship becomes a hindrance to love.

life is already extremely confusing,
but when this issue of love and friendship come into play…
life becomes beyond confusing.
consider these:

Case 1:
When one wants to bring friendship to the next level,
there is a risk that it might be one sided.
hence if carried out,
a precious friendship might be in jeopardy.
but on the flip side,
loving someone in silence without letting the other know
and not being loved back is e terrible and often unbearable experience.

Case 2:
In the game of love,
many say that it is fair play, where everyone has the chance.
in some ways, it’s like a competition,
where the best player wins.
but what if both ‘players’ in this game of love are originally friends??
friends trying the best to gain the heart of a same someone.
now, can is still be a fair game??
or because of their friendship,
one should give up love for the happiness of his friend??
if that’s the case, who should pull out??

Case 3:
is it necessary for a relationship to start out as friendship??
thus does it mean that those that don’t are doomed to fail?
but if friendship are really the foundation of relationships,
then what is the explaination between the troubles mentioned above??
won’t it be less confusing and in some cases less painful if…
friends are just friends,
and couples are just couples??

Sigh!!!!
being caught in one or more of these situations is indeed unfortunate.

~not as happy and still as confused~