If you don’t go into the kitchen,
you won’t get burn,
but you’ll go hungry

how do you tell a person he/she is doing something wrong?
or in more often than not, doing minor wrong-doings such as:
speaking too loudly;
interrupting another during a conversation;
bringing up topics that might seem really inappropriate or irrelevant;
now, this would have been difficult if it was between friends,
I know friends are suppose to be honest with each other,
but, who could feeling a friend off not affect the friendship that ties 2 friends together?
and if the person ain’t a friend, but our parents or elders?
how then can one be honest without being seen as rude??
once again, this proves the point that,
humans are the toughest people to get along with……

anyway, a switch of topic…..
what happens to a relationship after marriage or the addition of a child?
in my opinion, it should be no different than when both parties first fall in love.
no matter at which stage,
doesn’t love mean that one would be always excited and happy to be in the company of the other?
mustn’t one always feel fortunate to have found the other and hence shower one another with constant gestures of love?
shouldn’t one be only complete when he/she is in the present of the other and hence every moment of separation serves only as periods where one learns to treasure the other even more?
the reason why I’m bring up this is that
I’ve sort of noticed being home and around my aunts and uncles this few day
that there seems to be no affection between any on them.
maybe I’m being a little over-sensitive and naïve,
and that when love matures, tiny gestures of affection no longer are important
but its just weird to feel like
the marriages around me all lack a certain sense of love.
even simple actions like: hugging, holding of hands or even any form of greetings or contact are non-existence.
its like they’re just stuck together and tied down by the bonds of marriage
marriage becomes like a burden and is no long the sacred union of joy it was meant to be.
and I know,
that’s not what I want.
what I want is,
being as in love or more with my half even when we’re all creaky at our joints and the big 90 (hopefully) is round the corner.
ever since 80 year olds out on a date and showing more affection for one another than just-married-couples?(without over doing it of course…)
that’s where I want to be then.

~relax and reflecting~

Life is Short, so break the rules...
Forgive quickly,
Believe slowly,
Love truly,
Laugh uncontrollably,
And...
Never regret anything that made you smile...
Every Little Smile can touch Somebody's heart

Have a great day....

Gone Going-Wong Fu Productions

when u think of what u dun hav.....think of wat u hav..

Wong Fu - I'm Yours

why our better halves are called BETTER half...

Kiwi!

the lengths we should go to achieve our dreams.....=]

...Glenn’s nuts roasting on a open fire;
FD got a big big spare tyre;
The old frats are away;
So it us here to stay;
Jean and Rod wish you good day.
( Glenn and FD are gay)alternative last line...
Sung to the popular tune of The Christmas Song by Torme and Wells in 1946.


HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
Well done to both Jean and Rod…
Bet everyone who heard that can resist smiling
(Maybe except Glenn and FD…)
And some where out there,
There are people bursting out in laughter garnering weird stares from the public…
Like me…HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

~sick of BU but happy nonetheless~